gitlab-ci: use arch-specific tags for OS selection

Ben Boeckelrequested to merge
ben.boeckel/vtk-m:ci-arch-tags into master

Also adds some tags that were missing to various jobs.

Backport: release-1.7:HEAD^2^2^2
Backport: release-1.8:HEAD^2^2
Backport: release-1.9:HEAD~^2
Backport: release

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