MinGW: Update find_library to not find plain .dll files

Brad Kingrequested to merge
brad.king/cmake:mingw-find-no-dll into master

Modern distributions of packages built with MinGW tools provide .dll.a import libraries. Prefer those instead of finding plain .dll files. This avoids accidentally finding unrelated Windows .dll files.

Fixes: #20019 (closed)

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