Feature Request: Set <build-tool-options> programmatically

Background: https://discourse.cmake.org/t/how-to-set-build-tool-options-via-cmakelists-txt/6925

It is possible to pass arguments to the underlying build-tool via

cmake --build --preset <preset> [<options>] [-- <build-tool-options>]

For example, with ninja you can run

cmake --build --preset my_favorite_preset -- -d explain

which forwards -d explain as arguments to ninja.

It would be handy if a variable BUILD_TOOL_OPTIONS="-d explain" could be set in cache, so that calling

cmake --build --preset my_favorite_preset

is effectively the same as calling

cmake --build --preset my_favorite_preset -- -d explain

This would be allow for controlling build-tool arguments via cmake-options. In my particular case, having an custom option NINJA_EXPLAIN that controls whether or not -d explain is written to cached variable BUILD_TOOL_OPTIONS would be very helpful when debugging why some .cpp-files are rebuilt, since I would just be able to tick this option and then build from within Visual Studio via my presets.

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if BUILD_TOOL_OPTIONS="-d explain" is set in cache and some user invokes this:

cmake --build --preset my_favorite_preset -- <something else>

then I think the consistent & expected behavior is that the cached variable is ignored and whatever passed to ninja via command-line takes priority.