Since commit 0d014513 (CUDA: Add abstraction for cuda runtime
selection, 2019-11-29, v3.17.0-rc1~83^2) we add CUDA runtime library
selection flags by default.

To maintain backwards compatibility the default CUDA runtime
library needs to be computed based on what libraries are found
on the initial compiler invocation. For example a toolchain
could establish initial flags that have all CUDA compilations
using the runtime version, and if we don't detect this we will
try to link to both the static and shared runtime.

Co-Author: Brad King <brad.king@kitware.com>
Fixes: #20708