Backport many fixes

Backport of !11557 (merged)

Also comment out version check warnings in CMake.

Also backport the following MRs

• Fix: vtkPolyDataNormals not correctly orienting normals : !8265 (merged)
• Fix std::max issue in vtkStructuredData.h : !11489 (merged)
• Fix corrupt vtkPolyDataTangents output for 32Bit cell array input : !11508 (merged)
• Fix data ownership error on rectilinear grid creation in Conduit : !11517 (merged)
• vtkOpenGLBatchedPolyDataMapper: fix inconsistent rendering for composite : !11521 (merged)
• Fix MeshCache check class name : !11532 (merged)
• vtkContour3DLinearGrid: quiet an INFO message : !11540 (merged)
• Do not close application when reporting CGNS reading failure : !11543 (merged)
• Memory leak in vtkRemoveDuplicatePolys.cpp, the variable "polyPoints" : !11584 (merged)
• Prevent vtkAbstractTransform ModifiedEvent deadlock : !11574 (merged)
• ci: python-wheels ensure required packages are installed : !11579 (merged)