Add support for out-of-tree build using CMake

Add support for find_package(vespa):

```
find_package(vespa REQUIRED)
add_executable(vespatest main.cpp)
target_link_libraries(vespatest PRIVATE ${VTK_LIBRARIES} vtkCGALAlgorithm)
vtk_module_autoinit(...)
```
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