FindMatlab: Matlab Runtime Compiler support

* Determining automatically the MCR version on OSX and Windows
* Distinguishing between MCR and Matlab
* Specific tests for the MCR
* mexext on windows does not work properly: the mexext is hardcoded
* Doc updates for the MCR

Fixes: #16487
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