FindMPI: Pass -pthread to NVCC through -Xlinker for device linking

Robert Maynardrequested to merge
robertmaynard/cmake:findmpi_support_nvcc_linker_and_pthreads into master

Fixes: #20924 (closed)
Backport: release
Topic-rename: FindMPI-nvcc-link-pthread

Edited by Brad King

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