cmake: Add options for parallel builds to --build mode

While we already support `cmake --build . -- -j`, the options after `--`
are specific to the native build tool.  Add new options `--parallel
[<N>]` and `-j [<N>]` to abstract this and map to the proper option
for the native build tool.
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